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Everyone knows that when a guy writes in his profile that he wants some fun or he’s looking for a woman to have some fun with, that he’s not talking about concerts, plays, movies, conversation, going out to dinner, dancing or any of the like. More often than not, the male’s idea of fun in the…
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Continue Reading July 10th, 2008
It was close to six months before I had sex someone whom I’d met through the personals. And having done it, having finally crossed that line, I am glad for the measures I took that were actually my instincts taking over and protecting me.
The man that I had this pleasurable experience with was…
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Continue Reading July 7th, 2008
I received a disturbing email last night.
It was from a woman who said her husband had contacted me and other women without her knowing about it. As I had sent nothing back but an email addressed to the both of them (it had been signed with both their names) thanking them for introducing…
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Continue Reading June 30th, 2008
This morning I was reading about a female who met someone online over a month ago. The relationship moved fast and both she and the man consider themselves to be one another’s “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” She states that she feels as if she’s known him for all of her life because they talk all the…
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Continue Reading June 27th, 2008
It’s interesting, isn’t it? That as we age, our perceptions about what beauty is expands…and someone we might not have found attractive years ago suddenly becomes appealing.
Does this mean we have settled? Or are we merely growing up?
I think it means we are growing up. And I think it’s great…
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Continue Reading June 24th, 2008
What does everyone know about relationships?
We know we’re supposed to be kind.
We know we’re supposed to be supporting/supportive of our partner.
We know that we’re supposed to be a “we” and not an “I.”
We know we’re supposed to honor our own feelings as much as we respect any others.
We…
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Continue Reading June 19th, 2008
When I first heard about online dating a few years ago, it was just in its infancy and so of course, there were a great many comments, both positive and negative, to be made about it. Now, years later, there still are.
What exactly is an online dater? It’s someone who has centered their focus on…
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Continue Reading June 16th, 2008
This morning in my inbox I received an email from a lovely and sensitive woman I’ve been corresponding with for awhile. She’s been depressed lately and her depression has been intensified by what she perceives as a “lack of solution” through the online personals. I asked her what she meant by…
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Continue Reading June 14th, 2008
For our entire lives we will be involved in relationships. I’m not just talking about the one-on-one romantic relationship but all the other kinds of relationships that we come across: friendships, relationships with co-workers, family ties. Sometimes there are even relationships that defy…
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Continue Reading June 11th, 2008
If there’s one suggestion that I could give to men, it would be to tell them: let the woman set the pace of the relationship.
I am aware that many men, often unconsciously, like to perceive women as fantasy creatures who are full of light, beauty, sexuality and understanding; but it’s time to…
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Continue Reading June 2nd, 2008
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